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Real Love.
Real Truth.
From Coping to Communion: The Key to Lasting Freedom
Aloha Friends, Over the past six weeks, we’ve taken a journey together, looking beyond pornography itself and into the hidden roots that keep so many young people stuck. Along the way, we’ve uncovered how: Emotional avoidance teaches them to numb instead of bringing their feelings to God. Loneliness and attachment hunger lead them toward false intimacy instead of real connection. Shame and low self-worth drive them into secrecy instead of safety in Christ. Compulsion and lack
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From Escape to Abiding: The Final Key to Freedom
Aloha Friends, Over the last few weeks, we’ve uncovered some of the hidden roots that drive young people toward pornography: emotional avoidance, loneliness, shame, compulsion, and trauma. Today, we come to the final one: control and escape. For many youth, pornography becomes a way to feel in control - “I choose when I feel good.” For others, it’s an escape hatch - “I’ll disappear from my pain, even if just for a moment.” But both are built on lies: “I’m safer when I’m in ch
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When Pain Becomes a Prison
Aloha Friends, This is our second-to-last email in this series, addressing possible roots of porn addiction and reminding us that...
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Self-Control Is Not Willpower—It’s Spirit-Power
Aloha Friends, Compulsion isn’t a character flaw—it’s a symptom of disconnection from God. Behind every late-night click or compulsive...
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One Click is All It Takes
Aloha Friends, It starts with one click. One moment of curiosity, boredom, or pain relief… and a young person is exposed to...
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Loneliness, Attachment Hunger & Pornography Addiction
Dear Friends, We live in the most connected generation in history—yet many young people have never felt more alone. Beneath the surface...
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Why Numbing with Porn Feels Easier - and How it's Costing Our Kids
Dear Friends, We are raising a generation taught to scroll past pain. In a world wired for instant gratification, teens and young adults...
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A Kingdom-minded Strategy to Overcome Porn Addiction
Aloha Friends, At the root of pornography consumption and addiction lies a deeper need—one that only Jesus can truly satisfy. The...
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End the Demand
By: Richie Cruz I write this in the wake of the recent guilty verdict of Ghislaine Maxwell; Jeffery Epstein’s former girlfriend and...
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From Porn Star to Purity in Christ
The Following is an excerpt from the Explicit 21-Day Journal... FINALLY FULFILLED By Brittni De La Mora I had blonde hair and braces. I...
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