Activities that Celebrate God's Design for Older Children

Hey friends!

God’s design for male and female isn’t a limitation—it’s a masterpiece.

In a world that blurs identity, we’re not here to debate culture—we’re here to celebrate truth. God intentionally crafted boys and girls with distinct strengths, purpose, and beauty. When we help kids and teens embrace this, they don’t just hear truth—they experience it.

Here is part two of our activity ideas for elemetary-aged children and teens to celebrate God's design for gender. Let’s cultivate a generation that doesn’t just know who they are—they thrive in it.

Elementary-Aged Children (Ages 8-12)

1. Character Study Journals – Have kids study biblical men and women (e.g., Daniel’s courage, Ruth’s loyalty) and write what they learn.

2. Hands-On "Boy & Girl Strengths" Activities

• Boys: Outdoor challenges, building projects, service projects.

• For boys with interests that cross stereotypes like cooking, theatre and the arts: Show them how Jesus served others (John 13:12-17) and how leadership often looks like service. Joseph managed Egypt’s resources (Genesis 41:39-40), showing intelligence and wisdom. Ask the Holy Spirit for help in meeting your children where they are and connecting their interests back to biblical masculinity or godly character.

• Girls: Creative projects, mentoring younger kids, community service.

• For girls with interests that cross stereotypes, like mechanics: Encourage them by pointing to God as the Creator of order and discovery. Remind them that women in the Bible, like Lydia (Acts 16:14-15), were successful in their work.

3. "God’s Design" Science Lesson – Teach about the differences between male and female through nature (e.g., how birds and animals work together).

4. Hero Spotlight – Introduce kids to godly role models who exemplify biblical manhood and womanhood.

5. "I Am Wonderfully Made" Affirmation Board – Have kids write things they love about being a boy or girl and post them.

Teenagers (Ages 13-18)

1. Identity & Purpose Small Group – Discuss scriptures about identity (Psalm 139:14, Genesis 1:27, Ephesians 2:10).

2. Leadership & Service Projects – Encourage teens to lead younger kids in activities that celebrate biblical masculinity, femininity and character.

3. Christian Mentorship – Pair teens with older godly mentors who can model healthy identity.

4. Real Talk Nights – Create a safe space for open discussions about culture, identity struggles, and God’s truth.

5. Vision Board Project – Have them map out their strengths, calling, and God-given design.

For Teens with Interests that Cross Stereotypes:

• For Boys Who Prefer Artistic or Nurturing Roles: Encourage them with examples like Bezalel, the craftsman God appointed (Exodus 31:2-5), or how Jesus wept and showed compassion (John 11:35).

• For Girls Who Prefer Leadership or Active Roles: Teach them about godly female leaders like Priscilla (Acts 18:24-26) and the Proverbs 31 woman, who was both strong and resourceful.

The key is to affirm that God gives each person unique gifts while celebrating His intentional design in making them male or female.